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Not Feeling Myself

Needless to say, life has pretty much been lifing for your girl. My faith has been tested, emotions have been up & down, negative thoughts have won, and fear and rejection has over clouded my life. During times like this it is very easy to be angry at yourself, God, the universe and just life in general. It seemed every week presented a roadblock, and I eventually became stuck and hit rock bottom. It was very hard to pick myself back up, but I couldn't have done it without the people around me, as cliché as it sounds. 


black girl relaxed

But during that time, I talked to and cried to God and the people closest to me the most and knew that everything going on in my life was to restore my faith in him and make some much-needed moves, as I have been stagnant and became too comfortable with the bare minimum knowing my purpose is so much greater. For those who are experiencing the same thing, it can be difficult to do but I challenge you to shift your perspective. Instead of seeing things happening to you, see things as happening FOR you. There are always going to be things in life where you will have control over, and things you will not. This depiction (below) has honestly help me realize on where I should put my focus on, and we hope it helps you too.


what I can control and what I can't

Growth and change are uncomfortable! But needed if you wish to elevate and have some type of development in your life. I will be the first to tell you it is so much easier said than done, but it can be accomplished. You will never have peace in a situation that was meant to mold you. So, cry it out if you need to, but after you wipe your tears make some much needed moves! We’re rooting for you.


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